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Assalmualaikum



Sorry for not updating for a few weeks. Basically i dont have ideas but actually lots of it but laziness came first! hihi Within the cuti cuti i spend my day playing games, usha some blogger and i really into the blog! The siblings blog, Iza Hamid and Shazwani Hamid. I really like their writting on how they express themselves in blog. I never get bored reading the posts. Ohsem sangat! Their English writting is really fun to be read. I mean some of the bloggers are like skema (ING) in writting but they dont!  Hee. So i started to write my blog in Engish too and perhaps it might help me a lot in writting essays nnt ^^




Back to the main topic up there. MC (Menstrual Cycle) which every women will face it once in a month. But not me! Ever since my weight increase after SPM, my MC is not stable till now. It can be once in a year, once in 3 month and it doesn't seems serious to me! Cause my makuda is kinda datang period like mine. haha. But she managed to get 5 children! impress impress :)




For the rest three years back after school till I finished my Diploma, I see the problems for granted. And after all my yayang always said that I need healthy body like I was in Tun Fatimah. He is kinda afraid as I became weaker back then,, 'weaker' which mean I easily get sick, my gastric came often and of course he want me to look good as before. aaaaumm! I sayang you lebih. And when i told hi my problems, he is kinda surprise but not at all 



After the internship, yayang made some deal with me if I manage to reduce my weight by ?kg within 1 month. I sahut cabaran tuh! haha. Even I know 'mesti aku main main punye'. Haha. But, i really started to jog around every day. Atleast for about 5 days in a week. Guess what ? For the first month jog, my MC came Yahooooooo! And I keep maintain to jog till this month (2nd month) and my MC already came yesterday! Alhamdulilah. I manage to get it normal. Jogging helps to increase my metabolism tooo. Sekarang jog 2 km is okay for me!!  But still my weight will not lose easily. It is not about weight actually, my low metabolism cause my weight increase rapidly and abnormal MC.   

If we manage to control the metabolism rate in our body, it should be okay. My sister, whom can eat 3 pinggan nasi for one menu, maintaining her slim body after all. Ouh! I admire her metabolism. huhu. Alhamdulillah, I still manage to discipline myself to go for a walk/jog till now. And hopefully my weight will decrease tooo! yeay! Pray for me. 

Lets jog!  Till then,  muah!

Sape tak sukeeee kahwin weeeei

Assalamualaikum 

how your weekands? have fun ? Hope everythings went smoothly. Alhamdulillah mine was good but i just got 'terseliuh' di kaki gara gara  panjat tingkat 4 samura dan terpeliot ketika berjalan. Dugaan dugaan. 

It just a small thought for the entry topics. It's about Nikah Khitbah. One day, duduk makan dengan someone (YOU) and he suddenly said that he want to do nikah khitbah with her girlfriend. And i just said tht he was too young to carry the responsibility. Memang lah bagus, but it just a small thought of me sebab dye sangat muda that he dont even know and meet that girl. He just text and  call her. Not even seeing the real person nor in facebook. One ore things, benda alam alam fantasi di hujung jari ini memang tak bole dipercayai 100%. am i right ? I was just too worry for him. Sampai kan gado -.-

So let me sambung pasal nikah Khitbah nieeee.. Nikah Khitbah nie dikenali jugak sebagai nikah gantung.Nikah gantungsebenarnya bermaksud pernikahan di mana pasangan pengantin tidak duduk serumah dalam satu-satu tempoh yang ditetapkan hasil persetujuan bersama kedua-dua belah pihak. Tanggungjawab pemberian nafkah oleh suami kepada isteri juga diringankan dan boleh dilepaskan. 

Iklan sebentar. hihi ^^

Ramailah muda mudi boleh nikah la nie jugak. It is a good thing yang kita boleh hindar zina kepada sesiapa usually or frequently meet their girlfriend. Tapi situasi nie lain dengan YOU. Baguslah bagi aku dia nak nikah without looking at the bride. Cume aku sangat lah tak berpuas hati when he said that 'aku anak lelaki, tak paya ada wali/kebenaran ibu or ayah'.  It really make me mad. Bagi aku, it kau serious, kite boleh bincang dengan family, or at least  YOU should show your responsibility lah starting with your parents. 

Oh! mari kita sambung lagi info about nikah gantung. 

Bersambung... Dalam kata lain, majlis akad nikah diadakan terlebih dahulu tapi majlis kenduri kahwin (walimatul urus) diadakan kemudian. Penangguhan majlis kenduri kahwin tersebut boleh hingga menjangkau tempoh bertahun-tahun lamanya.

Akan tetapi rukun-rukun perkahwinan seperti biasa perlu diikuti iaitu perlu ada suami, isteri, wali, saksi dan akad (Ijab Qabul). Tidak ketinggalan juga maskahwin pun perlu dibayar. Untuk hantaran boleh ditanggunhkan dulu.

Sebab-sebab biasa nikah gantung ini dibuat adalah seperti:

Suami masih tidak mampu menyara sepenuhnya kos hidup isteri seperti rumah sewa, pakaian dan sebagainya. Pasangan masih lagi menuntut dan masih belajar. Belum bersedia memberi komitmen sepenuhnya dalam menunaikan tanggungjawab berumahtangga.

Setelah majlis akad nikah berlangsung, kedua-dua pasangan perlu tinggal secara berasingan sehingga benar-benar bersedia untuk memikul tanggungjawab sebagai suami dan isteri. Pada kebiasaannya pasangan ini akan tinggal di rumah ibubapa masing-masing.

Tujuan utama nikah gantung ini dilakukan ialah bagi mengelakkan berlakunya penzinaan dan kelahiran anak luar nikah. Setelah kedua-dua pasangan ini melalui nikah gantung, mereka boleh bertemu, berdating, dan bermesra. Malah jika melakukan seks pun hingga melahirkan anak ianya tidak salah dan tidak haram. Anak yang mereka lahirkan itu adalah sah hukumnya.

Walaupun mereka nikah gantung, mereka adalah pasangan suami-isteri yang sah di sisi agama Islam dan undang-undang Kerajaan Malaysia.

So ape kata uols dengan YOU nie ??

Till then !

Arau meh!

sekarang dah pandi perah keringat nak post ape dekat blog. huhu. So, since dah habis diploma ni, let me share some interesting moment at the end of semester 6. ya ya. time presentation hari tue. bagai bagai cuak lah kecot perot lah, hilang selera makan. but not me yang suke buat last minute work. haha. bila kau nak berubah nyaaah. Haha

Its about a few weeks ago. right after my last day internship esoknya terus bergandang gandang pegi Arau. Dengan beg yang tak fully kemas, beg kerja sume aku angkut je pegi sana. I dont even done the Uitm Log Book since it was damnly busy at Honda. ya. Its trueee. 

So petang tu pegi rumah fiqah and aina , lepak and wat so ever. sangat kesian tengok rumah sewa dorang cause their owner doesnt concern each part of the house same goes to the penyewa. Kesian tau diaouls. Be tough bebeh! Malam tu tak tahu nak buat ape dah, then they decided nak pegi makan steamboat. yepiiii! 

For ur information, Perlis sangat terkenal dengan steamboat yang amat murah. Kalau kau datang Melaka nak makan steamboat, alamatnya sampai RM 50 sekepala meanwhile kalau dekat perlis tu RM50 tu kau makan untuk 5 orang. jauh kan beza. 

Hihi. Ini je promosi untuk perlis sepanjang 3 tahun disitu ^^ ngeh ngeh

meet piqah!                                                                        

some of pictures yang sempat aku snap snap malam tu. Yang diutamakan hanya makan makan dan makan. seha seha -.-

The next morning, hari yang dicuak kan. Final presentation day! Sangat lah cuak cause dapat panel yang strict but luckily alhadulillah dapat Miss Syimi and SirHafiz. shuffle laju laju uouls!! haha. and guesswhat what ???

The lectrurer only wants the conclusion during internship wei!! 

tak payah pulun terang satu satu. haha

relieveee laju laju 

me, the mustard one ^^

Since dah last sem nie, haruslah anda bergumbira besama rakan rakan. we spent our time by going to Padang Besar for the last time and went to Alor Setar. Dna aku hanya ad gambar mase main boling. sob sob sob :'( 

 tak cukup sorang lagi :(

 faryze and cik tass 

till then! wait for the next story ! muah 

Makan kenyang farewell

Alhamdulillah. Baru habes makan makan borak boraking with fellow friends yang awesome ^.~ perot juga senang hati makan macaroni cheese. Huhu. So basically, ini macam farewell party for bella. # aku tak de pun. Sangat nak nangis. Haha. Starting tomorrow she will start her new sem at GMI for another 2 sems. Best of luck ye bella!

I'm gonna miss them badly. Chit chatting, gosiping and byk lagi. Hope we can meet another time. Love youols!!! Muah!

Till then! Night!